Soul Inspiration – Living the Dream
Have you ever been asked, “What’s your dream?” and found yourself at a loss for words? It’s a tough question, one that forces us to pause and reflect on what truly matters.
For me, after some deep thought, I realised, I’m already living my dream life, well at least 80%, and the other 20%? Well, that’s a work in progress. But isn’t that the beauty of dreams—they’re always evolving, just like us.
I have to say after getting divorced I didn’t think I would have another relationship, mostly because of limiting beliefs, a lack of worthiness and confidence in myself. You may have heard the saying, to love another human you must first love yourself, well, that’s what I did.
I fell in love with me again. I found my worth, I found my confidence. I found ME. I wrote down all the things I wanted in a partner and in a relationship. I knew that if I wanted to have the relationship of my dreams I had to become that person. If I wanted romance, I had to be romantic, if I wanted fun and adventure, well I would have to be fun and adventurous.
After my journey of self discovery and doing the inner work the universe delivered an unexpected package. I wasn’t ready for it but the universe thought I was. It’s been 2 years in my new relationship.
There’s been moments of doubt, many triggers and lots of realisations. The best lessons I’ve learnt along the way are: ‘Don’t take it personally’, ‘In a relationship it must be a win:win compromise’ ‘Nothing has meaning until you give it meaning and everything is open to interpretation’ ‘Effective Communication is key’, ‘You only get what you give’,and ‘Put your partner first’
So with that being said, I can honestly say I’m very happy in my relationship. I have a partner who’s my best friend, who loves me, supports me and looks after me. I have a partner who I love, adore and support with all my heart.
We have created a beautiful life together with weekend adventures, day trips, memories and moments that have connected us together.
I love the lifestyle I have created and continue to create. You see, when you get divorced, you lose your cirlce of friends and family. Luckily, When you start a new relationship you also start to make new friendships.
The Quality of your life is determined by the quality of not only your intimate relationship but also your friendships.
I am grateful for my health. I am fit, healthy and active and work every day to keep it. I get sore muscles here and there, sore knee’s, sore neck and shoulders, but really I can’t complain, I’m in relatively good shape for 45 year old woman (mind you I don’t feel 45, I think sometimes in my head I feel 29).
My face to face business is in a great position. It’s great to work 8-10 hours a week and get paid more than working a 38 hour 9-5 job! I have an amazing group of clients who I enjoy seeing every week, you can ask them if they feel the same lol.
The other 20% of my dream is work in progress.
Success doesn’t happen overnight even though to some people it might look like it. It’s years of hard work, sleepless nights and tears. But it’s that relentless attitude to never give up. To always learn more and take action to get what you want. It’s failing and getting back up again and again. It’s years of accumulated knowledge coming to fruition. It’s everything that’s happened leading you to the very moment you know your dream has come true.
How will I know when this 20% of my dream has come true..by the amount of $$$$$$ in my bank account.
What’s Your Dream?
How will you know if has come true?
Here’s 5 Ways To Start Living Your Dream Life
- Get Clear on What You Truly Want
Take some time to define what your dream life looks like. It’s easy to get caught up in what society tells us we should want, but your dream is unique to you. Write down your goals, both big and small, and start visualising the life you want to create. - Break It Down Into Manageable Steps
Big dreams can feel overwhelming, but when you break them down into smaller, actionable steps, they become much more attainable. Set short-term goals that lead you toward your bigger dream and tackle them one by one. - Cultivate a Positive Mindset
Your mindset plays a huge role in your ability to achieve your dreams. Stay positive, even when faced with setbacks. Believe that you deserve the life you’re working towards and keep your focus on what’s possible. - Take Consistent Action
Dreams don’t come true by wishing; they require consistent effort. Make a habit of working on your dream every day, even if it’s just a small step. Over time, these small actions add up to big results. - Surround Yourself with Supportive People
The people you surround yourself with can either lift you up or hold you back. Choose to spend time with those who support your dreams, who inspire you to keep going, and who celebrate your successes with you. Their positivity will fuel your journey.
Cheers to making dreams come true—one step, one action, one day at a time!